I had heard about his mother’s 42nd cousin, twice removed, and we were set to meet her and her husband in their home on the west coast of Scotland. I had heard hints of “royalist” and “talkative” but nothing prepared me for the day we would spend in her company.
We arrived at her wee croft that nestled on the water, sapphire blue Scotland at its finest. We picked our way down the steps to the front door where we were welcomed by a warm, effusive and enthusiastic Scottish woman. I’ll call her Betty. She hugged us and told us she hated what we were wearing. Look, it was the 80s but not everyone loved the big, permed hair, flowery pants and pink, plastic shoes of that era. And my husband, mulleted and moustached, was dressed in his Miami Vice best.
We were invited indoors and soon saw that “royalist” was no exaggeration. “Talkative” took no convincing either. Her little home was beautiful from the outside but sadly tasteless inside. The brightly patterned, textured linoleum flooring screamed in competition with the striped and floral wallpaper, and every corner of the house was filled to bursting with recent royal memorabilia.
The walls were adorned with framed photographs of the royal family, her kitchen boasted tea towels bedecked with smiling monarchs, and a glass-fronted dresser groaned heavily under the weight of her prized possessions. Charles and Diana smiled from mugs, plates, cups, scarves, towels and pictures, while Elizabeth and Philip, along with the Queen Mum, greeted us from more. Betty giggled with excitement at her forthcoming trip down to London for the wedding procession of Andrew and Sarah (Fergie, as she was fondly known).
“Ma frend’s go’ us a seat on the route,” she told us. This, evidently, was access to an office or apartment that overlooked the road along which the royal wedding procession would travel.
Betty talked. Non-stop. For the entire day. When she was wondering what to say next, she would think on her feet and say, “Och, well, so there y’are, well, I don’t know, so, tell me.” That usually stretched sufficiently to bridge her to the next thought, and so she would continue. Sometimes she would just repeat “Och, well, so there y’are ….” until another thought popped into her head. And that way no-one else could get a word in edgeways either.
Mr Betty arrived home from work at 5pm. He walked in the door and, without saying a word or greeting anyone, went through to his bedroom, undid the top button of his work-shirt, removed his shoes and replaced them with slippers, and returned to the dining room table. He sat down and waited for his tea (evening meal). That’s what happens every day. She took him his tea, talking to us through the house as she did so. He said nothing. He never does, apparently.
Betty returned to the sitting room and perched herself on the arm of the sofa, where my husband’s long-suffering aunt with whom we’d travelled that day, was sitting. Betty sat next to her and began her segue-monologue. While she did so, she took out her handkerchief from the cuff of her cardigan and, with a hint of drama, shook it out in front of aunt’s face.
“D’ye like ma perfume? …. It’s a new one. …. It’s called Fergie.”
Och, well, so there y’are …. the colourful tartan of my married-into family. I just love it.
Sunshine signing off for today!
25 thoughts on “She’s mad about the royals”
Thanks for my morning giggle, Sunshine! Very well-written…
As a young radio news intern, I was lucky to be able to cover Prince Charles and Princess Diana’s Royal Visit to Ottawa when they were there in 1983…Prince Charles is quite eloquent when he speaks (and very funny sometimes!).
Thank you, Wendy! Ah, I loved Diana – what a wonderful opportunity you had. xx
Betty sounds a lot like my great-aunt. Sweet, lovely woman, but when she started talking, you couldn’t sneak a word in edgewise.
P.S. On behalf of the United States of America, I’d like to take this opportunity to apologize for inflicting mullets and Don Johnson, “Miami Vice” jackets on the rest of the world. Really, we have no excuse.
Thanks, Todd, for taking responsibility for mullets and Miami Vice fashion. I feel much better now! 🙂 And anyway, what were you thinking?
With Betty, as with your great-aunt, it’s purely one-way traffic. But that’s ok, sometimes, too.
Todd, I think you should stop apologizing. After all, the rest of the world was silly enough to follow these trends! 😉
Sunshine, the way you turn a phrase!!! This piece is just so colorful. I love it!
You know, the mullet remark caught my attention, too. One of my dearest friends in the world used to have the most prolific mullet you’ve ever seen! He used to call it “The Great Kentucky Waterfall,” and then say “Business in front, party in back.” Awesome.
Thank you so much, lovely Maura! I love your friend’s mullet name – that’s so funny! xx
Mr. Betty. That cracked me up.
One of my best friend’s mother was obsessed…with THE POPE. Pics everywhere…
I can relate.
Thanks, jane! Aren’t obsessions like this so funny? xx
LOVE the picture painted. I think in pictures constantly and enjoy the way in which you put things across.
PS I have a scrapbook of the Royal Family in the 80’s and with that let me away…..
Thank you so much! As for your scrapbook, big ups for openly admitting it! That’s the first step to recovery. hahaha xx
My only royal kitch are 2 sets of playing cards -Diana and Charles and Fergie and Andy that I picked up in London in 1989. My maiden name is Ferguson and my brother was always called Fergie by his friends in the 50’s and 60’s. Does that count? Love your stories, Miss Sunshine!
Thank you! And I guess you’d have loved Betty’s new perfume! xx
I’m trying to conjure up the scent of Fergie.
I can’t even remember what it was like! Thanks for the visit! x
You know what I love about your blog? I love the vivid picture you paint. I could hear Betty, actually HEAR her! LOVE IT! 🙂
Thank you so much – such a lovely thing to say! And Betty is a character, for sure. xx
My goodness, I snorted my tea with this post. So amusing, so clever, so easy to relate to.
Thank you so much, Jane! Glad I made you laugh xx
Great story, nicely told!
Thank you, Lisa! It was fun to write! xx
Great post! Love Betty. QVC needs her as a hostess to sell Royals doodads. Seriously.
Thank you! There’s an idea for her! xx
You brought me right inside that eccentric ‘wee croft’ – I’ve known couples like that – one talks, the other doesn’t.
I guess the silence becomes a survival technique! Hope you enjoyed meeting Betty and Mr Betty!